The Dating Forum

I don't want money and don't care much about sex. Does that mean I'm not part of the games the sexes play with each other anymore? Good enough for me if a man can at least support himself. I think it ...

I live in a most beautiful village high up in the mountains. As I got out of the rat race when I was 45 I knew some or other time I'm going to end up being terribly poor. Decided to buy my own land to ...

Nearest city is also a dead give away as they don't know South Africa so Durban can be close to Cape town according to their profile.
I have been around long enough to spot them easily. Very glad to ...

I have not been on this site for a long time. Got a message there is mail for me. Not just one but 3 mails....how lucky can a girl be. First one...no profile information. Second one standard scammer h ...

Disclosing too much too soon can be a bit overwhelming but keeping too many secrets is also not good. So it is kind of complicated. Think it is best to try and determine what is important to the other ...

Spiritualmale....people make the mistake to start relationhips for the wrong reasons and then they wonder why it doesn't last. They have this long list of requirements or naively believe an overwhelmi ...

If it is clear that the person contacting me did not read my profile I assume it can be a scammer so chances are good that I won't bother to answer the mail.

Before women make generalisations about men they should rather get to know men on a personal level. Various men look for different things. Take someone like me who is 43 years of age where sex is not ...

Seems like it is all to do with money. If you don't pay up you better pay with your body. When did men become such cheap skates that they are not even willing to pay for the coffee or light meal when ...

Sex becoming more freely available really complicates dating. With unwanted pregnancies out of the way and very few caring much about having multiple partners people kind of expect any relationship to ...

Have anyone ever stopped and asked themselves....why are there different races? There must be a reason behind it so why not honor that reason and stay with your own race. If we were not suppose to hav ...

Wow Peterm I was not talking about men not sending me messages. I was more referring to the forums. Can't understand why people are not using it a lot more as it is a good way to get to know people.

We are around but it takes so long for anything to happen on this site that I forgot I am member here.

Men in their twenties can go play with their friends in the sand pit. I am talking about men a little bit younger not half my age.

Dating is complicated enough as it is. Dating someone from another race is a complication I don't want to add to my dating experience.