The Dating Forum

joseline · Joined: 18 Jun 2014 Posts: 1

hei is it that bad here? Then it means we will definately have a long wait for Mr right to come along.

Tsuky · Joined: 12 Jun 2014 Posts: 2

Finding a suitable companion is not easy @ all...let's nt luz hope ladies

ladies man · Joined: 02 Feb 2014 Posts: 4

Hey first of all I'm a guy ind 26 frm dbn verulam, its not only you ladies that are unlucky coz as far as I came across it was I'm not into looks or money but first thing the girl asks for send ur pic next thing deleted how unfair is that I'm not one of these guys that just come here hounding every women for sex and one night stands I'm giving this a shot coz after all the heart ache and pain I'm searching for true love with someone I can laf and share my sorrows with someone I can be myself with and create memories with a woman that's looking for a long term relationship not an undecided woman that's not sure what she wants in life, goodluck ladies hope u find what url searching for I guess I just gotta wait for her to come along....take care... : )

piscator · Joined: 09 Jun 2014 Posts: 2

This does seem to be a slower site should you get a response. I've have a few incidences to relate being a guy. However, I'm intrigued about the "I love you before first sight" comments from men and would suggest you avoid those as, if it is not a scam, it is unrealistic.

I also don't like the trend of emails going on for too long and being asked for my private email before I've met the person. Or someone demanding a photo. As a man I'm well aware of the male trait of being stirred by sight, but one should use some intuition, given the profile info and a couple of emails to ask questions and make a judgement.

If all goes reasonably well, I'm inclined to suggest a coffee so we can meet face to face. If it doesn't work out, too bad. Sometimes though, a friendship does start even though we both know its not Mr or Miss Right. Sometimes she has a friend who she thinks might like you so again one can use 'referrals'

If, however, one is too particular and only looking for 'the one' and don't open yourself to meeting, then you will be waiting for Godot.