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LeonBotha
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Hi you are worried about old pictures did you see the nude pictures on this site? And look is nothing because you might get a man with a good looking body and hair do and behind close doors he beats the life out of you, you need to concentrate in what is inside and I mean the guys that's putting up fake picture lies to themselves not the ladies because its not that old photo that's going for coffee it's his lie going to have coffee.  |
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LeonBotha
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| Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 9:47 pm Post subject: |
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| Women put professional photo shoot pics up and when you meet them for coffee they so ugly that your coffee with 5 sugars taste bitter but the respect I have I finish the date and when I get home then I'll send a message to say sorry I don't think we clicked. |
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LeonBotha
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| Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2014 10:19 am Post subject: |
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| Well its sad to hear that some women and men can't be true on these sites but if any one want a true friend that don't hide anything feel free to add me on bbm or whatsapp 2ad4e9c3 or 0849684290 and please no fakes please because I'll just remove you so come on make my coffee sweet please. |
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Love me Tender
Joined: 07 Feb 2014
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Location: Cape Town
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| Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 10:09 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree with the sentiments expressed here...it is dishonest to put up pics of yourself when you were 25 when what you look like now is nothing like that...what I also have an issue with is when people put up photos of their dogs, or a photo that is so blurry you can't see what it is....that really irritates me. You should have a decent photo of yourself and not one of a monkey (honest! I saw it on the site!). I guess they think it is funny, but it's not! |
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Love me Tender
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| Posted: Fri Aug 22, 2014 8:16 am Post subject: |
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You would think that with all the technology tpday...smartphones and all its an easy matter to take a selfie and post it...I think people are too scared to show what they look like today as compared to several years ago....its no shame to grow older. Btw, my pics are up to date.....  |
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peterm
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| Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 9:30 pm Post subject: |
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| slindeloM wrote: | | Ladies and gents I just have a question here. If you meet somebody on this site who doesn't have a profile pic and you or her/he invites you to bbm or whatsapp to find that e.g u don't like big women/men or she ugly, is it rude if you just ignore that person or just you have to just make up an excuse? Reason I ask is because I'm not a rude guy and it's against my beliefs to sort of dump a woman in a way. |
Just be honest. It costs nothing to say thanks for contacting me, we just don't seem to click and leave it at that. You go on a "blind" date, see the date through you took that chance and let it be a lesson. |
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peterm
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| Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 9:32 pm Post subject: |
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| tangela wrote: | | Hi there the comments regarding profiles pics seem to be a very sore point out there but I find filling in your profile details just as important. My profile pics are very recent and I do believe in honesty which quite a few people like to ignore. And its a real pity. |
Personally I think both are equally important and a dishonest pic is s sign of a dishonest person like it or not. The intent is to deceive. |
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Love me Tender
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| Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 9:50 pm Post subject: |
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| Well, at the risk of adding my two cents I must agree with peterm. Too many times the profile isn't filled in and there is only a pic...that makes me suspicious because if he/she had the time to put a pic up, surely they could fill out the details too? And don't tell me its too difficult. This is the most user friendly site by far! |
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Love me Tender
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| Yeah, Zariah!! I was fooled in answering someone who was pestering me to write to his email address..when I did write a nice letter he responded by telling me I am lying!!! And he ccontinued to send several emails filled with insults....so now I am much more careful. |
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Love me Tender
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| Yeah, Zariah!! I was fooled in answering someone who was pestering me to write to his email address..when I did write a nice letter he responded by telling me I am lying!!! And he ccontinued to send several emails filled with insults....so now I am much more careful. |
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peterm
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| Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 10:24 pm Post subject: |
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| zariah wrote: | | Peterm I suggest you tell the person that just happy to be friends,nothing more,you feel that the two of you aren't compatible and that you have other interest.......done!!!!!!!!! |
I don't know. When a woman tells a guy she just wants to be friends it is as much an insult and equivalent to a guy telling a girl I only want to screw you.
I don't believe in making it any easier for the girls. If anyone can't at least be truthful don't demand it of others.
Besides some guys just don't get it and do want to just be friends. Now what? |
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Love me Tender
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| Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 10:28 pm Post subject: |
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| Just be careful, okay? I also get those who start out so nice and then they vanish off the face of the earth or else they just sit there with a mouth full of teeth!!!! |
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Love me Tender
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| Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 8:43 am Post subject: |
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| Good idea! Thanks for that suggestion |
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peterm
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| Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 11:10 am Post subject: |
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| Love me Tender wrote: | | Just be careful, okay? I also get those who start out so nice and then they vanish off the face of the earth or else they just sit there with a mouth full of teeth!!!! |
Playing the field and picking the best option often.
While it has only been a few weeks for me I have exactly the same problem. Many women start off so nice and say one thing wrong and it is like the kiss of death. They have so many hot buttons it really is an impossible task trying to avoid.
I have never seen so much baggage in my whole life. The next guy somehow has to avoid all the crap they have accumulated, be kind and considerate while they act like a bitch expecting to be treated like a queen.
Yeah! I know not all woman are like that but it really is not easy to find the one that is not. They come with a shopping list looking for Mr. Right and expect to match that exactly, yet they don't have a map of the minefield some guy is expected to navigate. It's like a shit test playing mind games with themselves as the prize for guessing right. |
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Love me Tender
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| I understand where you are coming from. Unfortunately in today's world that is par for the course, and we women now know what we don't want. However, I admit that some of us are full of crap.....what? So shoot me, ladies! We have set our standards so high that you need a ladder to attain them....and you poor guys are left in the cold.... |
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