The Dating Forum

[Ntanga]

See, that's the problem with some of ya'll ladies... To tell you the truth, men aren't complicated; we are just as confused as ya'll are, we might say all we want is sex but in the end we'd also like to engage in fruitful conversations with the opposite sex.

If this site seems a bit complicated for you, you might want to check your profile; it might either be too full of demands and things you don't like. How about you just say what you'd like in the least demanding way you'd have someone else ask from you

Secondly, your profile pic is either your desktop wall paper or your desktop wall paper

And ya'll 20 somethings have got to stop being such prudes ... Don't get me wrong, asking for your naked pic is just crazy Be open to being social, it is a social network after all.

If this offends you
I don't know how else I could've ended this.

[Love me Tender]

You poor man!! You really sound confused. On the one hand you complain that the women don't want to talk to you....social websites....on the other hand you accuse us of being prudes.....make up your mind!! Our profiles are not full of demands...they do ask what you want....and if what I want doesn't suit you, feel free to click 'next'....

[Love me Tender]

Damn right, Beewitch! High five!!!!

[Ntanga]

Hahaha... After 30 days of posting what I posted, and having had forgotten what my reason for posting it was, I can still point out a few reasons I think you both misinterpreted what I said... If you read between the lines you'd find that I'm personally not for nude pics. Quite the contrary really.... However, you are right; if I don't like something I should just keep on scrolling; which now brings me back to this discussion: If you really hated it, you could have just 'kept scrolling'... And from where I'm viewing it, you do see some few things that are right with what I said.... With that said, I was just playing. .... And no, I'm not really crying... Further more: I have nothing but respect for you both. I just check your profiles, they're cool. Yeah, I think that's all...

Ohhh, I'm going to stop trolling now.... We OK right

[Love me Tender]

Liar, liar! Pants on fire! You never checked our profiles. You forget we can check who has been checking on us....and no, all is not forgiven....if you were only playing why post something in the first place......no, you wanted to vent and that is why it was such a long post. You say we should have continued scrolling, I say that I couldn't pass up the perfect opportunity to let you have it! Now, please, either get off this site and find another more suited to you or go into your corner to sulk!!

[Love me Tender]

Lmao, Beewitch! You go, girl!! We women need to stand up for ourselves and not lie down and be doormats!! Been there, done that, got the t shirt, thank you! Enough! My kids are more grown up than you and my son is 14!!

[Love me Tender]

I agree that you should treat others the way you want to be treated, and I brought up my son to treat women with respect! I also have a 16 year old daughter.

Would love to be a fly on the wall to see how he treats his mom. They say the way you treat your mom is the way you treat your wife one day.....

[Love me Tender]

Good night, Beewitch! Sleep well. I must also be up early....chat tomorrow!

[Love me Tender]

Good night, Beewitch! Sleep well. I must also be up early....chat tomorrow!

[Liveprince]

I think 2 have found the perfect match in each other....the man has a few valid points. Guys this is a forum where people are allowed to vent their frustrations and what he has a problem with related to THIS SITE. I didn't know u guys were running things which gave u permission to tell people to get off the site....that's just rude and especially in response to him apologizing for being offensive. This online dating is a frustrating platform for people to meet..u never know who is who and whats real. That's the risk u take when u sign up. I have never asked anyone for naked pics and I have never engaged anyone in any sexual chat. I actually like many guys on here respect women and understand the difference they make in being part of our lives. I personally have been deceived by someone who is engaged and has a relationship with that person. And I have had many women who make friends to get money and airtime...which seems to be the new currency these days. So maybe lets rather use this facility to TALK to each other about out experiences and not just to bash the opposite sex due to the bad experiences u had with the over weight perv that put pictures of a model up and got ur hopes up for no reason. Guys go thru that more than women do. Point is it happens. Learn and move on. Also I know that this will probably become some huge argument so let me save everyone the effort and just mention that I wont be a participant in any of that but im more than willing to have a civilized conversation with anyone who thinks im wrong or full of it and Im an open minded person who isn't scared to admit if im wrong and apologize if need be.

[Love me Tender]

Hmmm, Beewitch....the poor guy has a point. Why should he be made to suffer for what the other jerks are doing? I agree that its hard to know what's real and what isn't, I have been there, done that, got the t shirt.....and I can tell you now that it isn't pleasant being lied to. Maybe Beewitch and I are too suspicious of everyone, but that's what you get when you have been hurt once too many times.

I don't presume to own the site and kick anyone off here, but if he wants to make such unpleasant remarks what do you think I should do? Just smile? Hell, no!!!!!

[Liveprince]

All im saying is don't get urself so stressed out about it. People who lie will always get caught out. In the end they end up alone and miserable. I think its a thing of giving every person the benefit of the doubt. Yeah Badoo is bull crap and bad news. It amazes me that people actually pay for it. Its really crap. I have basically almost given up on dating sites.

[Love me Tender]

Agreed, Beewitch! Am thinking of deleting my profile...not that I don't enjoy these chats on tjhe discussion forum...I do, but get precious few decent men wanting to chat....and its just a pity we must meet all the jerks first.....but then you gotta kiss a lot of toads Before you find your prince!

[Love me Tender]

Lol, Beewitch. Yeah! I know what you mean, but its like finding the needle in the haystack....good to have a friend on here who supports me!!

[Love me Tender]

He he! Thanks for making me laugh!