The Dating Forum

[Joshy007]

it sad when a woman doesn't appreciate a man who walks the extra mile. Recently I have learned that when a man does take the steps of being a provider, care giver, supports he gets screwed. I wonder if there is a woman out there that appreciates a man who stands with her and for her through times of joy and trials...... [/b]

[Love me Tender]

;oshy, yes, there are good women out there, but unfortunately we have been ill treated by men in our lives, so we become hardened....and we want to be treated the way you want to be treated...doesn't everyone wish to be appreciated and wanted for what they do?? I was in a bad marriage for years, where my ex abused me...he didn't appreciate a thing I did for him and in the end took advantage of me...but I haven't given up hope that there IS someone better out there for me....its just so hard to fond him..

[Joshy007]

maybe you right, sadly I have come across woman who's main intention is to only gain...

[Love me Tender]

Yes, Joshy.....but don't give up. There ARE good women out there who will see you for the wonderful person you are and who have nothing to gain but a good friend....

[Love me Tender]

Aah, thank you, Beewitch! Yes, Joshy. You should check out our profiles and chat to us!!

[babydoll22]

Yes there is a good woman out there as there is a gOod man out ther.The challenge in our societies we have a vast majority of women who are gold diggers,who told themselves they will dry a man,ill treat,abuse and when they finish they will throw him out.That does not mean all women are like that also it does not mean you have to give up to fall inlove and be happy.dust yourself and try again that's life.

[Love me Tender]

Me too....seems like they all hiding....

[Love me Tender]

Yes, Tangela, we do all come with baggage....only some of us have 10 pieces of baggage! That's life. I don't think anyone doesn't have baggage. But we have to move on and sometimes that is the hardest part, especially for older women.

[Inaa]

The problem is in us all, we tend to think just coz u were hurt by ur X, ur new will do the same. We should learn to give our new partners a chance to be themselves n nt punish them for our past relationships faults. People are different n unique on their own ways.