The Dating Forum

Carmen7 · Joined: 08 Oct 2014 Posts: 7

WHY does everyone just want to chat? Why not really meet for coffee and move on if not your type.
Thats what i experience. How about all of you? Anyone from the northern ptetoria, LETS MEET...and just chat a little...

Carmen7 · Joined: 08 Oct 2014 Posts: 7

Hi caveman. Yes its bad and sad. And so nice to have a free dating site but alk these barriers.
Good luck. I hope u meet a real lady cause some of the ladies are bad mannered with false agendas. Its not only men.

Carmen7 · Joined: 08 Oct 2014 Posts: 7

Hi Faye.
Indeed i have experienced the same! Mostly widowed and if you ask questions they dont really answer. And they are either in CT or Durban.I for one dont believe in long distance relationships. They however try and convince you that its fine and they can re locate. All in soppy broken english. Some of them love u but u never even met
Come on cons, here is a question for you. What is your agendas? Do you want to con innocent woman out of their money? Or even worse, are you part of human trafficing and blood drug money?
All ladies must be very carefull and even men. U really cant be sure who you are really talking to.
I do believe you still get the good ones Faye, so good luck to you also and take care.

Love me Tender · Joined: 07 Feb 2014 Posts: 153 Location: Cape Town

Good afternoon, Faye...I have the same. Experience...all engineers, widowed, and once you add them on Whatsapp they immediately say they love you with the speed of light...and I don't even know them from a bar of soap! Then they ask for large amounts of money (usually in dollars)....this site is really not worth the time...sorry, admin!

Love me Tender · Joined: 07 Feb 2014 Posts: 153 Location: Cape Town

yes, Faye, I agree with you...I don't seem to have achieved anything by being on here...I know some of the photos are stolen from Facebook and used here...just yesterday I emailed this guy....he professed to love me....never having met me....wonder how that's possible? Anyway he wanted to send me a parcle of jewellery and other goodies. I did not ask for it, but he wanted me to pay 800 dollars to receive the parcel from FedEx!!! I told him I was not born yesterday..he was very angry with me, because he said he spent a lot of money on the stuff. I said its too bad, because I did not ask for it.....I accused him of being a scammer..because the FedEx parcel was mailed in West Africa.....come on! Does he think I'm a fool! Unfortunately this is what sours the experience for all of us....and its not fair!! I know there. Are good men out there, but unfortunately I seem to attract all the erong ones!!

Francois004 · Joined: 12 Oct 2014 Posts: 2

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