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Crazy23
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 Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 5:26 pm Post subject: Looking for somthing real - not perfect. |
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Im lookn 4 what I thnk most people on this site are lookn 4, or atleast what I think they should be lookn 4.
Real...and True
A true connection with someone, not just a connection with someone: but a connection with someone who's willing. Willing to what? Willing to try, willing to hope, willing to love and be loved.
I'm talking about someone who is not expecting the fairytale ending; the white pikkit fences; or a rosey relationship. Someone who understands that life is a roller-coaster ride, and we all just want someone to hold while were screaming our lungs out!  |
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Crazy23
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| Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2014 12:15 pm Post subject: |
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| But the question is are u the queen "ur knight in shining armour" wants to find?... |
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Crazy23
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| Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2014 12:17 pm Post subject: |
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| beewitch wrote: | There are still of em people about....  |
...and are you one of them?? |
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peterm
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Sat Nov 01, 2014 12:14 pm Post subject: |
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| julia101 wrote: | | I am sure my night in shining Armour is out there somewhere, one day he'll come galloping towards me on his beautiful white horse. |
And I am still looking for a very rich ex-model, nymphomaniac who owns a bottle store. Is that you by any chance? I can rent a white horse, armour, get it shined up and come galloping towards you if you tell me where you will be.
Me I'm just looking for a woman who knows what she wants and puts that up front instead of all the bullshit. Every woman I have ever met is looking for CHEMISTRY alone and nothing else. Nice, honest, non-violent, faithful, loyal, sober..... does not come into it. Well it gets a guy into the friend zone. He's everything I want except I don't want him. Look at the ex that is what they are looking for but hoping to get lucky this time.
CHEMISTRY is making the same mistake again and again and nobody can tell me they have not noticed that happening. |
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peterm
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| Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2014 1:36 pm Post subject: |
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| beewitch wrote: | | Morning Peter, I periodly don't agree.... |
Imagine how boring it would be if everyone did.
| Quote: | | I never want a dude like my ex ever again, yea don't we all want somebody who we click with....I don't ever again want a self centered, inconsiderate ass...who thinks we just there to be a maid & jump.... |
Ouch!! Yes I am afraid many guys can be complete assholes. So was he a nice guy you picked out because he was nice or chemistry blinded you to his faults? Just curious. |
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peterm
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| Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2014 2:11 pm Post subject: |
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| Jnnet wrote: | | Can't force chemistry. Yes I've met very nice men that would be perfect but the thought of kissing them would turn my stomach. You can't blame a woman for being that way. If she were to give in and give it a go it would probably end up as a sexless unhappy union |
Hmm I don't have a crystal ball but I do know that many many people grow to love one another very much. I have no idea how any union will turn out but 50% of chemistry fails. How bad can "decent" be?
LOL Thanks for your honesty and no I don't blame woman for being like that. My point was that what they are looking for and want are two different things.
Instead of describing the guy they want to kiss they have some idealistic BS that is totally secondary. It makes life somewhat difficult when they claim you never read my profile..... if what is there is not what they want. |
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peterm
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| Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2014 2:26 pm Post subject: |
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| beewitch wrote: | | Why would you wanna kiss somebody you not getting along with....If just friends then am sure they might feel the same... |
Well male and female are fickle, for both come on too strong and fast is going to end it not because there is no chemistry it has not developed. It is not exactly an easy road to travel and taking to long can equally end it. |
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peterm
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| Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2014 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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| beewitch wrote: | | Only cause its rushed....that's why I believe friendship 1st , from there 1 would know if its just lust or if you really click, if there is that feeling of really wanting to be with 1 another...I've had it 1s...I just knew. Sure will find it again 1 day lol |
I'm going to laugh with you because we all want to find it. I just knew = chemistry. DNA from prehistoric times says alpha male, status, provider, protector. = I just knew.  |
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peterm
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| Posted: Fri Nov 07, 2014 2:08 pm Post subject: |
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| beewitch wrote: | Glad have you laughing with....People of today is not like in the younger years...now if 1 doesn't agree then its divorce or sleep with another....
There is no more trying.....just giving up....guess that's why there is no more chemistry anymore.... |
It's funny I had this discussion with a lady friend very recently. The process is something like this. Meet sufficient interest (chemistry) says find out more there is a possibility here. There is a dance of getting to know combined if the end result is not friendship with an escalation of feelings of sexual attraction. Decision I like = sex. I don't like = drop or friend zone.
I think most enter marriage having absolutely no idea of what it takes to keep it together. Marriage is a doubles game, a two way street and has no place for silly games or ideas. It is share, it is compromise, it is negotiate, it is don't just give up, it is make the effort, it is the most rewarding work two can do. Can I hope to have that twice in my life? |
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peterm
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| Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2014 9:52 am Post subject: |
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| beewitch wrote: | | Dont give up peterm....1 never knows. |
The mind understands the heart does not Thanks for the encouragement. Enjoy the weekend. I have shopping to do, yuck... |
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peterm
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| Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2014 10:38 pm Post subject: |
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| uNiiQuE wrote: | | I hope to find thee guy on this site |
Are you going to do that on a picture alone? |
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