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Crazy23
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Honestly a guy is a guy, an women cum in2 dis dating site with a notion that they are goin 2 meet a total prince charming, is setting themselves up 4 disapointment. Take it all with a pinch of salt.
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ladies man
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| Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 10:05 pm Post subject: sorry ladies |
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Sorry for urls dissapointment ladies but hey even me as a guy knw that majority guys are
just looking for sex well me for example i just want a woman i can be happy with n will love me for me nt for what i look like but for the type of guy i am. Well every
guys needs sex and obviously thats gonna come as a bonus with my princess
charming after we get to knw each other  hope she is here somewhere........hope to find u soon baby...... |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| beewitch wrote: | | Here are some really nice people...dont let the 2 or 3 put you down. |
Absolutely the truth in that. The problem is woman sit and wait for predators and interested guys to contact them.
Here is a news flash for you girls there are more woman than guys out there looking and the older you get the worse it gets. Take a leap of faith, read profiles and try to figure what you want and send a message. It's just some electronic bytes, not a piece of your heart and if you get no response just forget it.
Here is a guys perspective of that. First I'm going to look at your profile PIC. Its a guy thing. No PIC I'm probably not going to respond. Dark, dingy, out of focus, partial or way in the distance and I'm going to think you are not serious about this. If I have to try to figure you or your daughter which one is interested?
I am not going to think less of any woman and may actually write back and say no thanks but I wish you the best of luck. How can a guy do that? As easily as a woman can. It not rejection as you found what is not going to work. Same as real life.
Try to be a bit more inventive than - I like your profile can we chat.
How about I saw your profile and you sound like an interesting guy would you like to find out if we click? |
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lawgal
Joined: 30 Jan 2015
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   I could not stop smirking at all the snappy remarks from certain members online. I certainly do not sit around for a predator or a pervert to contact me, this is virtual reality what is there to loose I agree other than a few data bytes. But every two people are not the same. When it comes to profile pics what is in a picture just a face. Why should that be so important for a person to see if not privately after you have started chatting with your contact. To plaster a picture of yourself online for any tom dick and harriet to see it and maybe who knows what with it is not on.
If a person not a man, goes for a picture other than conversation thats their preference. To my opinion I see them as vain because clearly the outer image is the thing that most appeal them about another. I reiterate, every person is not the same, but whatever floats your boat do not force your opinion off as the norm. |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 5:39 pm Post subject: |
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| lawgal wrote: | I could not stop smirking at all the snappy remarks from certain members online. I certainly do not sit around for a predator or a pervert to contact me, this is virtual reality what is there to loose I agree other than a few data bytes. But every two people are not the same. When it comes to profile pics what is in a picture just a face. Why should that be so important for a person to see if not privately after you have started chatting with your contact. To plaster a picture of yourself online for any tom dick and harriet to see it and maybe who knows what with it is not on.
If a person not a man, goes for a picture other than conversation thats their preference. To my opinion I see them as vain because clearly the outer image is the thing that most appeal them about another. I reiterate, every person is not the same, but whatever floats your boat do not force your opinion off as the norm. |
If one cannot see the funny side of life it becomes very boring real fast.
Take my word it is a guy thing and you may never understand it. Post a pic. Just the same as guys think you girls are looking for a hot car, fat wallet, huge dick, mansion and Mr. Universe bod. |
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jamringla1
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| Posted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 10:04 pm Post subject: |
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| A pic is a must,lets all agree.maybe some are more photogenic than others. when looking at a pic, you can see the fun or love or wisdom that comes from someones eyes,or its their whole make up in their face, depends what you are looking for. |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2015 8:13 pm Post subject: Re: The TRUTH of the matter |
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| Geanie wrote: |  I have come accross some very weird guys on the site... Some want nude pics others just want the size of my boobs and ass. This is what happen when you put yourself out there I guess... I am sure there is some who are really decent but hey I yet to meet that decent guy face to face lol |
Well Geanie what can I say the world is full of idiots and assholes anywhere one looks. Dating sites are no different to going into a club. The assholes think you are there to find them. The decent guy is probably sitting some where minding his own business and the idiots are grabbing everyone's attention, including the hot chicks who think he must be something.
Somebody told these clowns it was easy to hook up with girls on dating sites. Mostly you can pick them out in the first or second message.
Girls are looking for the world's diamonds they consider breeding material. so they have a shopping list in their subconscious. Guys just want to breed and that is life. Some guys will stick around others not.
Have you tried looking for what you like or are you hoping it will find you? If you were or are looking what would you say was most important to you? |
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Love me Tender
Joined: 07 Feb 2014
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Location: Cape Town
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| Sjoe! I guess I better add my two cents worth..... I admit I have been on here for awhile and I have noticed men fall into one of 3 categories: those who chat to you and just when you think you're getting on really well, they disappear into cyberspace never to be heard from again.....those who just want sex....and ask about the size of my boobs....bigger than their IQ!......those who just want money......now tell me, if I'm doing the right thing, how come my man hasn't come along before now?? |
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peterm
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:32 pm Post subject: |
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| Love me Tender wrote: | | Sjoe! I guess I better add my two cents worth..... I admit I have been on here for awhile and I have noticed men fall into one of 3 categories: those who chat to you and just when you think you're getting on really well, they disappear into cyberspace never to be heard from again.....those who just want sex....and ask about the size of my boobs....bigger than their IQ!......those who just want money......now tell me, if I'm doing the right thing, how come my man hasn't come along before now?? |
Because he has not. I really cannot even guess but if things progress to getting on well and then fizzle out, whatever chemistry was working for you is on holiday. Is there a common pattern to just disappear you can identify?
See my problem is I have no idea what getting on well means. You are just talking and enjoying each others company. Holding hands/touch and having intimate moments. Kissing and grouping all night.....
All guys want sex except the gay ones and that is a preference not want. Are woman different? You mean all they want is sex.
The flash your boobs type are not hard to spot. The money grabbers don't waste to much time before they ask. When they do they are hoping they have a victim hooked on them. Any guy who asks for substantial amounts of money in funny heart string pulling circumstances needs a door. Somewhere in that group of otherwise nice guys that did not work out is something for you.
Not everyone is suitable and remember it does take two to tango. You are looking for a diamond.  and you are not alone. |
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Basorexia
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| Posted: Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:09 pm Post subject: |
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| most men yes but, not this one... |
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peterm
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| Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2015 3:35 pm Post subject: |
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| lawgal wrote: | I could not stop smirking at all the snappy remarks from certain members online. I certainly do not sit around for a predator or a pervert to contact me, this is virtual reality what is there to loose I agree other than a few data bytes. But every two people are not the same. When it comes to profile pics what is in a picture just a face. Why should that be so important for a person to see if not privately after you have started chatting with your contact. To plaster a picture of yourself online for any tom dick and harriet to see it and maybe who knows what with it is not on.
If a person not a man, goes for a picture other than conversation thats their preference. To my opinion I see them as vain because clearly the outer image is the thing that most appeal them about another. I reiterate, every person is not the same, but whatever floats your boat do not force your opinion off as the norm. |
Excellent observations and thanks for your well thought out ideas. One thing you did not seem to appreciate is that PIC is your advert. It is the window to you and who you are. If one is wanting to attracts than perhaps the first thing that catches peoples eye is the pic. Don't make a mess of it. I have seen advice from people who know a lot more then I say go get a professional to take your pic. They are right. It is your shop window.
As for visual preference for guys it is a DNA thing and that may not be any more understandable that the criteria woman use is to a guy. It's not going to change any time soon. Sorry ladies but that is the way it is and the guys are not trying to change your way which confuses the hell out of them. |
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Djhez
Joined: 27 Aug 2015
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| Posted: Thu Sep 03, 2015 7:25 pm Post subject: hello |
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I am Sébastian, French and I come soon in SA. I don't want to pass for the best or something like that but I always says the truth, even if I am responsible of certains situations. I understand that is a lot of men who are liars, joke but just tell the truth, it is the most important to save all.
Best regards to all |
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Djhez
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| Posted: Thu Sep 03, 2015 7:30 pm Post subject: hello ! |
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| A lot of people wants the Mirror of themselves and they love their Mirror, they love what they can see, and at the end, they love only themselves. it is important to like difference, not search every time commons points but find the difference, accept it and love it. If you can love the contrary about you, you are the One |
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Angel 32
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| Posted: Thu Sep 17, 2015 1:55 pm Post subject: |
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| Well men do lie and also women. U do get some good men and women out there but the sad part is finding a real honest guy is somewhat impossible. For instance their profile, marrital status, I'll tell u later come on it takes under a minute to type in single, divorced, married etc....lies upon lies. One thing I hate is lies. Been honest is not the best policy but its the only policy I know. So please guys stop lying. Be honest from the start. A guy that lies to me is not a guy but a mouse. Be real. |
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