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Crazy23
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 Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 3:35 pm Post subject: room for the romantic? |
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Honestly i love being romantic, making my woman feel special, bt after everythn i've gone thru with women taking me for advantage an nt apreciating me, u wouldnt think it.
i gues my question is: is there a place in the world for a true an honest romantic? or should i continue being the only thing that i feel women respond to: An asshole? |
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Crazy23
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| Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2015 4:00 pm Post subject: |
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yep, i read ur reply on dat last post, an honestly i feel that u spoke alot of hard truths.
i do think that there is a specific knda guy dat women do seem 2 be atracted to, bt having said that: i dnt believe that any man should change who he is to please a woman. I can be an asshole if i want(its nt dat difficult), bt i choose nt 2 bcoz its nt who i am. |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| beewitch wrote: | | Dont believe a woman should change either...works both ways |
I think there are a lot of misconceptions both ways. Many woman think they are going to change a guy to suit what they want. Flaws in character are not going to change easily. A violent person is going to be VIOLENT and love will not cure that. Thinking that violence does not apply to you or you can control it is just plain crazy.
Some guy said he panders to woman's every need and gets taken advantage of...... A relationship is a two way street, let the woman do some work to gain that relationship or you are going to be a door mat. Man if they are not willing to make some effort run. |
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peterm
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| beewitch wrote: | Agree its a 2 way street...but why must 1 change...why not just be who you are...each fell in love or whatever as person was...they were attracted by what they see...sooo why change at all...its learning to deal with the little things thats fun I think...& yea makes us crazy but how else you gonna get to know 1s ins & outs....
Think people just make it complicated so they can just bitch.... |
It is an easy mistake many girls make. Woman are genetically programmed to seek the alpha male, the leader, the protector, the provider. They call it chemistry. It gets their motor running.
The problem is violent people and the misfits of life often are also very confident people who are often popular. Popular = MANIPULATOR as it is based on selfishness.
Take time to get to know who you are with. |
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