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eskarina
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 Posted: Sat Apr 04, 2015 8:04 am Post subject: Re: Generalisations made by gender types |
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| Ivan Robert Lotter wrote: | | Before women make generalisations about men they should rather get to know men on a personal level. Various men look for different things. Take someone like me who is 43 years of age where sex is not what im looking for. I have had plenty sex with my previous wife until the day she died. I also have a child so im not looking for pretty panties or g strings. Im looking for a life companion. I have also met many women who were unfaithful and who were only after money so if we want to make generalisations then I can also do the same as far as women are concerned. I am white but for example I have found many white women to be unsuitable for me cos most of them cannot accept me as I am and most of them are just after cash and as far as I am concerned, they seriously suck to the extreme. They also mostly are racist and proud and arrogant. Thats why I prefer non white girls like black girls, coloured and Indian girls. Non white women have alot more patience and compassion for kids so how is that for a mean and cruel generalisation? If you want to generalise then I can do even a better job of generalising which might cause you some inner pain especially if you are a white woman who is making the specified generalisation. |
Generalizations only hurt or offend when you are guilty not when you know it does not apply to you. Traditionally women were looking for money and men for sex but in modern times that is not true anymore. Both are now looking for money and sex. |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2015 7:49 pm Post subject: Re: Where all the good, decent no bullshit men gone? |
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| cilicia wrote: | What happened to all the good, decent guys or don't they make them like that anymore. Most men want all the benefits of a bf but won't make the lady the one and ONLY.
I dunno maybe I'm just born in the wrong era but I liked the way things worked back than where there were gentleman. Where the man would court you, take u on dates and not just wana get into you pants before knowing your last name.... |
Cilica you really have to understand that the traditional role of any man is to replicate. His sole function in the scheme of things is to have as many children as possible to ensure the survival of the species. If you think you can change that then best work on the DNA rather that some poor guy.
Every heterosexual guy still functioning wants to get in your pants. Some many may only be interested in that. Most woman have no trouble finding sexual partners and some get to thinking that is the way to establish a long term relationship. 
If you want him to stay and that is the way you feel then best find out what he wants. Simply say to him I love you very much but I need to know where this is going. What are your plans for us and the future. Anything but a positive answer is not good enough and it is time to bite the bullet look elsewhere. Seriously your guy is possibly happy to carry on this causal relationship indefinitely. You have to make up your mind what you want. |
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charmn
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peterm
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| Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2015 9:57 pm Post subject: |
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peterm
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| Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2015 9:34 am Post subject: |
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| curiousknotty wrote: | | One tends to forget that one cannot find a decent man if one is looking in all the wrong places ? Just a thought .... |
Do I know what you mean when it come to woman and I am convinced  that the only place is the supermarket. They sit at home bemoaning the fact they cannot find anyone. Then they go out in a pack hunting in some club expecting to find a guy who is more interested in a one night hookup.
As a matter of interest where are the wrong places to look for a guy? Where are the right places to find decent woman? That is something I would love to know. |
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peterm
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| Looking4U wrote: | "Although there is light, the dark was there first." Ernest Hemmingway.
How can we as women expect to achieve the idealistic ideas of the 1900's to be courted, to have the romanced idea of the "one" that will sweep us off our feet, the "now and forever"?
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It was just a thought but how can any woman expect anything if she is not willing to give in return. Nobody should expect anything they have not earned or deserve. Woman treat men like they owe them something yet no debt has been incurred and simply talking to or acknowledging somebody does not meet that.
They want to be swept off their feet and romanced? Why should anybody bother when they behave like spoiled bitches?
It's a Monday thing.... |
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Temitope
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| Posted: Mon Jun 22, 2015 4:35 pm Post subject: LUV |
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Temitope
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| Posted: Mon Jun 22, 2015 4:37 pm Post subject: Where all good, decent no bullshit men gone |
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peterm
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| Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2015 2:50 pm Post subject: Re: Temitope |
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| cocky2u wrote: | | Is that a demand, request or cry for help? |
It may be all three |
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Love me Tender
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| Broken Arrow, I believe if a man asks a woman out he should pay....but if its just for coffee you can agree to go Dutch....however its your choice. Values have changed so much these days....maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that. A man should do the asking...maybe that's why I'm still single?? Lol! Rose |
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Love me Tender
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| Sjoe! I replied before I read all the posts, but I can say I agree with ekaterina that you don't have to take out a second mortage on your house to buy a woman a few drinks and breakfast or supper....the problem is men are attracted first to the face.....if you don't have a pretty face, forget it, and second, to the body.....now, shhhhh! Men! I'm talking. And you know its true! ......thirdly, the one that bugs me most is that they want to have sex and They're not interested in me for me....I can be a bag lady, a professor of phyics, as long as I want to sleep with you.......that's not what I want!!!!! I want to be loved for who I am, not for what I can give you (my body).....so NOW do you understand??? |
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