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Love me Tender
Joined: 07 Feb 2014
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Location: Cape Town
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| Yes, I feel I am wasting my time. I have also been on this site for awhile, and so far I have met one of 3 kinds of men: there are those men who start chatting and you get on like a house on fire, and think 'wow! This person is awesome! And then they disappear without trace and you can't contact them......or they just want your money.........or they just want sex!!!! So really, what's the point? Waste of time? Agreed! |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Fri Jun 26, 2015 11:36 pm Post subject: |
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Oh! Wow the ladies are in full swing and I can only sympathise. First of all girls don't lose hope you can search and pick on any guy you like and have nothing to lose. Even if they say no or make it obvious what they want what have you actually lost?
OK so it is a different game and sitting around hoping some guy is going to find you is not the best approach. Go get them tiger is more like it. Girls like guys you have to learn that nothing ventured nothing gained. It takes a few seconds only to figure out an asshole but with the bad you get the good.
I have no idea what I would give to meet that special person I would want to spend the rest of my life with but believe me I know am looking for a diamond, my diamond because to me nothing is better than the love of a woman, your partner. |
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chichichi221
Joined: 16 May 2015
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| Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2015 6:28 pm Post subject: |
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| Love me Tender wrote: | | Yes, I feel I am wasting my time. I have also been on this site for awhile, and so far I have met one of 3 kinds of men: there are those men who start chatting and you get on like a house on fire, and think 'wow! This person is awesome! And then they disappear without trace and you can't contact them......or they just want your money.........or they just want sex!!!! So really, what's the point? Waste of time? Agreed! |
I've only been on this site for few week but i feel i'm wasting ma time. |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2015 2:39 pm Post subject: |
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| K9johnt wrote: | | I've been here 2 days, and maybe I wasted my time, maybe I didn't. We'll see. The site really needs to add more search options. There's also almost no activity on the site. Disappointing... |
Well you posted here and that is activity. The few who do run out of idea and we need new inspiration.
First off I made a suggestion and I really think you girls should take notice of the changes in strategy with internet dating. You don't get dressed up and go hang out waiting to be noticed. That does not work here promise so get rid of the idea and EXPECTATION.
Here if you want something it is not a provocative outfit, some leg or boobs. The only thing people see it your pic assuming you have one and your profile. It is not enough. You may well be somebodies princess how will they know?
Searchers are based on age, gender, location if you choose an extended search.
Get cupid to sharpen some arrows and go find something. Ask if they would like to chat. A bit of flattery never goes amiss either. I just loved your profile and think we may get on great, would you like to find out.... Chat and find out if they are willing and do not organise a date first thing. You are not going to strike oil on every attempt, not even con artists can do that. Get over the fact you are not every guys cup of tee.
If after a month you have not found anything I will be the first person to express surprise.
So what do you have to lose? |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2015 1:05 pm Post subject: |
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| pearlyt wrote: | | supriseeee, I am here, I do initiate conversation, I send winks, I rate and do all that, or maybe what am being too much?....... The thing is life doesn't happen easily for others like it is for others too... what works for some people doesn't work for others,,, am not here with the mindset that I gona strike gold and live happily ever after NO,, am simply here to try and find what I cnt find out there in the "real world",,,, I have to say am one of the unluckiest ones,,, believe me I put effort.... |
I'm going to say do not think of yourself in such a way. Your have to realise that what most of us are looking for is not just a good time. Our desire to find somebody may well be strong and our stated points of attraction very wide but the reality is we are not so easily satisfied.
Hang in there join a few other sites as well and see. I wish you the best of luck and know if you keep looking you will find somebody. |
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Liveprince
Joined: 24 Mar 2014
Posts: 22
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| Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2015 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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| Well I have been on this site for sometime now and i must say that alot of women on here are very stuck up and excuse me for saying this ladies but its true. Almost all of you are expecting to meet some hot guy with a great body and an award winning smile....those guys dont use dating sites, they are out picking women out at clubs and bars. I must have sent out about more than 300 msgs to different women since ive been on here and i think i got like 5 replies and met just one person. Point is that u dont know who is on the other side unless like the other gentlemen mentioned u actually make conversation. i dont think any guy on here would not respond to a msg from a lady saying hi. Now to the lady who started this post i think the problem u are faced with is that u live in a very remote location where there arent many guys from there on this site. A guy is gonna wanna meet a women at a location that doesnt require him driving hours just to be disappointed. And as far as profile pics go...women dont think in that regard...ive seen everything from pictures of models to actresses. I think to have success with a site like this u need to approach it like u would facebook. Chat to a guy who msgs u and if it doesnt work out then u scored a friend and u cant have too many of those and he may just have a single friend who he thinks might just be ur type. U cant slam the site as useless when u havent actually given it a fair chance |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 9:12 pm Post subject: |
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| pearlyt wrote: | | thank you liveprince and peterm,, but the struggle continues, |
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I have to agree with liveprince and the guys who live in large cities obviously have a far better choice. This is not the only site but the people here are really helpful and friendly. For woman this the chance to pick and chose. There is nothing in the world stopping them from contacting any guy and hey if you see or read a profile you like GO FOR IT. Gosh what have you got to lose?
So how much does it take to write Hi (insert name) I saw your profile and think we may have much to chat about. Let me know please.
If you really want to get into it pick one of his interest and mention something. I just love polo do you play... I see you like fishing, where do you fish and what do you prefer to catch? Your interest in photography is great what subjects interest you?
It's not difficult. It requires a few key strokes and nobody will be harmed by that.  |
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Kingjzus
Joined: 08 Aug 2015
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Location: Louis trichardt
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| Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 10:08 pm Post subject: Im here for you |
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| :cry:if you are serious.contact me on 0606713687.or send me a request on facebook.gagaraba justin themba.or tweet me @jzusgags.email@[email protected] |
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