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tesa30
Joined: 21 Jul 2015 Posts: 2
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2015 9:52 am Post subject: SATISFY THE ONE |
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how can we satisfy our lovers..to fulfill that energy she will be missing.. |
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Touchmysoul
Joined: 12 Aug 2015 Posts: 3
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Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2015 11:10 pm Post subject: Re: SATISFY THE ONE |
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tesa30 wrote: | how can we satisfy our lovers..to fulfill that energy she will be missing.. | The real problem here is to look inside ourselves, and what is missing in our own lives, we reflect onto someone else's. By this I mean that if we carefully look at what we are lacking from our partner to be satisfied, that would be the missing ingredient in the recipe for a happy relationship.
The next most import thing is to start communicating with one another and find out what expectations you both have from a relationship and take heed of what your partner expects. Just remember another thing...it is not just about give and expect something in return..... it is about giving the greatest gift of all.....yourself. |
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Touchmysoul
Joined: 12 Aug 2015 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2015 4:24 pm Post subject: |
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nickytwo wrote: | I think it is a lack of communication.....I want something..wife is on Facebook.... ex...I will just say to myself f.. her turn around and sleep. And then the thoughts aint I good enough any more is she getting it elsewhere???? |
I would agree with you about the communication also. This could just be a case of miss understanding one another, but I would look at the red lights flickering there. The internet has made it easy for anybody to cheat, and your assumptions can be right. If all is well in a relationship there won't be a computer in the bed and no one should be chatting on facebook that time of night if they are married. It is rude and uncalled for, no matter what reason they have and I would consider it as disrespectful.
Another point that I would like to make is this. Sex don't start only just when you want to go to bed. Woe your wife during the day with sexy messages, bring her flowers and help her with dinner. Let her relax and get her in the mood. A little personal attention goes a long way and shows that you really care. |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014 Posts: 260 Location: Pietermaritzburg
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Posted: Thu Sep 03, 2015 8:45 pm Post subject: Re: SATISFY THE ONE |
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Touchmysoul wrote: | tesa30 wrote: | how can we satisfy our lovers..to fulfill that energy she will be missing.. | The real problem here is to look inside ourselves, and what is missing in our own lives, we reflect onto someone else's. By this I mean that if we carefully look at what we are lacking from our partner to be satisfied, that would be the missing ingredient in the recipe for a happy relationship.
The next most import thing is to start communicating with one another and find out what expectations you both have from a relationship and take heed of what your partner expects. Just remember another thing...it is not just about give and expect something in return..... it is about giving the greatest gift of all.....yourself. |
I hate saying this because it is so cliché, well said and I agree whole heartedly.
Any relationship that leaves one partner wanting is not a good relationship and communications is the key. |
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