The Dating Forum

sharn · Joined: 07 Dec 2015 Posts: 1

hi everyone I got a question . Does it scare people away if you have kids? I don't see anything wrong with it but some do ? KidS are a blessing and those with kids also want to find love and deserve to right? What's wrong with having kids? I'm starting to wonder if ill ever get married...

Mbalz123 · Joined: 19 Sep 2015 Posts: 51

I will tell you straight: If the fact that there is an 8 year old who calls me Mommy embarasses, bothers or irks you in any way; VOETSEK! It is not even open for discussion. We do not negotiate. I don't even feel the need to explain to you how much I love her. Why must I justify how I feel about my kid?

MattyMat · Joined: 08 Sep 2015 Posts: 1

I totally agree with what's being said hey .he should accept and love your kids in tirn .I certainly don't have a problem with that .. but hey that's just me .Wildatheart cpt

[email protected] · Joined: 29 Nov 2015 Posts: 2

Hi I need a single mom with two or one kids to show care and I see nothing wrong having a kids as far the kids will accept me as their dad or big uncle: [email protected] contact me

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

There are are quite a few "regulars" that are hectic feminists. When a guy voices his opinion and they don't agree, they go for the jugular.
Most of the men that reply to their vicious/venomous posts are quite decent about it. I am pleasantly surprised. Thumbs up gents!
And no, I am not trying to stroke your egos.

Ladies. Stop being so nasty. If you don't like what they saying, ignore them.

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

There are are quite a few "regulars" that are hectic feminists. When a guy voices his opinion and they don't agree, they go for the jugular.
Most of the men that reply to their vicious/venomous posts are quite decent about it. I am pleasantly surprised. Thumbs up gents!
And no, I am not trying to stroke your egos.

Ladies. Stop being so nasty. If you don't like what they saying, ignore them.

Aj7 · Joined: 13 Jan 2016 Posts: 1

But then what about the guy who you are upfront about your kids with and then he overdoes it, asking about them everyday, kids kids kids. How are the kids, send me pics, i love kids OMW
Look i know the guys want to impress, but there is a fine line between showing that you can accept my kids and loving my kids more than i do LOL

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

Hi ladies
I Never subject my daughter to any man. Not untill I decide that this relationship is going somewhere. Imagine they must meet a different guy every so often? So yes, its our duty/responsability to protect them (from a lot of Asses)

kenfelix · Joined: 12 Nov 2015 Posts: 2

kenfelix · Joined: 12 Nov 2015 Posts: 2

sexual chocolate · Joined: 18 Jul 2016 Posts: 1 Location: Napier

Kids is a great thing to have abd i dont have children myself but i cannot understand why a child is a problem for a new relationship.

Jock · Joined: 10 Nov 2015 Posts: 1

Well I am a single dad of 64 with 2 daughters at home. I work for myself and guess I have become quite independent because I do cope. Sure it would be nice to have a female role model around for them and a help in the home. You know what they say when two do a job its less than half the effort. Anyway I get the feeling woman avoid very independent guys that can cope without them. But hey I am on here hoping I am wrong. It sucks to be alone with little ones, though they are getting bigger evey day and the oldest one is getting quite smart and supportive in the home. I have two lovely girls and if you cant love them as I do I'd rather be alone.