The Dating Forum

Mrdemelo · Joined: 12 Nov 2013 Posts: 1

Many people have been saying that I've become a more philosophical type person. I just think that I'm just one to anwer and analyze things more than others and stuff. I was alking to one person and they were like how I'm always making them think. And I'm like, that's what I do. I'm a thinker myself and there isn't anything wrong with making other people think you know.

like for instance, today's topic is love.

What is love really? The dictionary can give you a generic definition of the word but in actuality, the only one who can really determine if it's true true love.

Now, in my opinion, TRUE TRUE love is something that will last forever. It's like, you know for a fact that you want to be with this person for the rest of your life. It isn't something spontaneous. So a question is, why is it that when you see a couple in school and they say that they're going to be together forever, but then they break up? They claim that they were in love. And then they could be like it was real love and that I don't know what I'm talking about. But is that really the case? I mean, love isn't something that should happen more than once. That's the purpose of marriage. If it was real then they wouldn't have broken up now would they? They could be like, "Oh Tarik you don't understand you weren't in love." Even if that is the case, I know what real love is. No I haven't felt the genuine love that comes when you REALLY love a person and they love you. But what's happening is that people are letting they're motions and hormones get in the way of logic and their heart is clouded. That's why they call it love but in actuality, it's puppy love. Here one day, gone another. Thats just what iv seen though my life. [/b]

LeonBotha · Joined: 22 Jun 2014 Posts: 10

Well I can give you the answer on why people love each other today and then they gone tomorrow its because its not the feeling of love that changing but its the person self, if you want true love then you need to be that lovable person when you first met because I had the experience and that is why I divorced my wife we have been going out for six years and the love was strong and I knew this was going to last for ever and then we got married and that's when she change's and it was never the same again so there is true love as long as the couple as human beings don't change.

LeonBotha · Joined: 22 Jun 2014 Posts: 10

That sounds so damn kinky what happen that sounds so perfect I think that's a experience of a life time. Wish I could experience that in my life but quest not hey it's 50 shades of grey for me.

LeonBotha · Joined: 22 Jun 2014 Posts: 10

Choc didn't mean it in a bad way more in a romantic way not a cheap spin its good when people feel like you and him was feeling it would give a lot of others hope on this page if they were reading the post here but I guest not lots of people into reading any more so ya good luck for finding someone on this site and may you experience that feeling again with someone.

peterm · Joined: 15 Jul 2014 Posts: 260 Location: Pietermaritzburg

Interesting question. What is love. It's pure emotion.

Sometimes it is what we take for granted and it is the most painful thing for anyone to take from us. Sometimes we don't know until we lose it. Lucky for those who know when they have it. Sometimes appreciated often not.

Some cannot live without love others can. Something not to be missed that everyone should experience at least once. The love of that life time partner is something few ever achieve. Love is work, it always will be work, nothing that good comes for free.

peterm · Joined: 15 Jul 2014 Posts: 260 Location: Pietermaritzburg

peterm · Joined: 15 Jul 2014 Posts: 260 Location: Pietermaritzburg