The Dating Forum

[fredb1]

When woman stop thinking that they grant men big favors for allowing intimacy and admit they enjoy it also stop the Victorian ideas. Thank goodness my late was not and she was beautiful we had a wonder full time

[bobsledgeman]

I think it is more complex than that. There is an old saying that behind every beautiful woman there is a man that is sick of her problems. I think it is safe to assume that it refers to physical beauty, and not the complete package. For me beauty is not skin deep, but I do find myself being married to a person who is physically very attractive. But after a few years of marriage I've come to realize that people change, and that we no longer have what we use to. The situation is a bit more complex than that, so walking out is not really an option. And for her, physical interaction is no longer on the table (And no, it is not that I'm not trying hard enough anymore, believe me I constantly try all the tricks I used when we were still dating).

Yes, there are Dogs out there, just as there are Bitches. But everyone has unique situation, and are trying to cope in their own silly way.

[peterm]

Perhaps it is a double wammy. Beautiful woman don't have to work very hard to get guys falling over themselves that they do not learn how to maintain a relationship as they are the star attraction. At some point the gloss wears off, the guy gets tired of being treated like baggage. The first woman who appreciates him for who he is has got more than his attention.

All relationships are a two way street. A 50/50 partnership.

This works equally well for guys who by status attract women and treat them like baggage or yesterdays news. The biggest mess is when two of these meet hence so few Hollywood marriages work.

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Not every man is a cheater some of us just never got that chance.Im not a cheater hence Im single and a lot of good guys out there trying their hardest.

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[Phenomenal1]

You know ladies and gentlemen there are always two sides to a tale especially this one. While in God's eyes we are all beautiful as we've been created in His image; we all have the capacity to be extremely ugly.....if you ugly on the inside you ugly on the outside....your physical beauty will have no meaning although it will serve its purpose of having a handsome or beautiful partner. Basically some women think that their physical beauty should cover up for their faults and wherever else they lack and in the process forget to be human beings and forget to treat others in a proper way. Do not misunderstand me ladies because some of us react in this manner because it's possibly the standards that society has set or one's which we've set ourselves and if it is the latter then we serious issues. On the other side of this tale, it is said that men, no matter how young or old, do not know what they want however will know what they've lost when they've lost it, sadly at that point its too late.....guys forgive me if this sounds sexist but do your brains really work in reverse.....I mean what would make a man, who has a partner who does absolutely everything in her power to make him happy because her heart is fulfilled when she sees the joy she is able to bring him on his face, cheat? Simply put he doesn't know what he wants, never has known and never will know. Unfortunately ladies we've all had a turn to be swept up in this web of deceit. I mean you know you love him he knows you love him and yet the ungrateful, selfish "man" continues to do what he does. Man is in inverted comas because sadly a lot of you guys have forgotten that there is so much more to being a man that just the get in get off get out mentality that 99.9% of you possess.

So basically these are the two categories into which this tale falls.....ladies is the error really with you or gents is it with you......you decide and hopefully make the changes that are needed to correct it. Something I'd like to leave you with....."The purpose of life is to Love....how well you live comes down to how much you love. The heart is wiser than the head. Honour it. Trust it. Follow it."

[peterm]

[Ruffdogg]

truthfully some men jst dnt no wat they have...or had till its gone..sad but true

[Ruffdogg]

sum ppl are like that...I cant speak for them but its jst not clever to talk abt sex 24/7 there so much more to a relationship than that...if thats what u got.

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