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Leomatters
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 Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2015 10:37 am Post subject: about the real man |
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What does a real man with a real profile do once he has found someone who could be a good match or companion. And if this man is in his 50ties or older and perhaps had 30 years of marriage behind him? The butterflies are long gone and companionship and mutual interest with a little tenderness rather then sex is hard to find. Not because there are no real woman out there but because one is so set in life's routine.
Man may have no problem to charm the pants of a lady on these sides but once it comes to meeting in person, its a totally different story. Both parties are possibly shy, don't know where to start and often feel it would have been better not to meet at all. Well that happen now a couple of times to me and what is left is charming the pants of lady's on sites like these. Nothing else? or am I wrong?  |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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| beewitch wrote: | | You must get peterm to help you there |
That first meeting is important as nothing before counts. Be what you are. It helps to be confident and act accordingly. Don't put any hope in the outcome and do not make it important. Nor do you have to impress anyone.
Woman like talking and you want to find out so ask her questions like what does she see for her future? What is her family like? Where does she work and does she like it. It's not 20 questions so don't snap them off and you are interested in HER. You can flirt, tease and touch if appropriate. It's not a big deal nor is the end of the earth if it does not work out. Nor do you have to spill your guts on every subject you are asked. It's OK to be a little vague. ie What sports do you like? Whatever is on TV.
Say thanks no matter what the outcome. Polite, manners, honesty.
Now ask Beewitch how close to right that would be for a woman |
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peterm
Joined: 15 Jul 2014
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Location: Pietermaritzburg
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You have been a busy girl today 
I'm so glad I am not talking to myself. |
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