The Dating Forum

cilicia · Joined: 05 Jan 2015 Posts: 1

What happened to all the good, decent guys or don't they make them like that anymore. Most men want all the benefits of a bf but won't make the lady the one and ONLY.

I dunno maybe I'm just born in the wrong era but I liked the way things worked back than where there were gentleman. Where the man would court you, take u on dates and not just wana get into you pants before knowing your last name....

carmeister · Joined: 30 Dec 2014 Posts: 3

That's a very open ended question. But I'd say in this day and age both male and female sometimes have questionable morals. In short, you do still get the good guys and you do still get the good girls. On the other hand you do get the messed up guys AS WELL as the messed up girls.. its a two way street really

ninjaboy · Joined: 05 Jan 2015 Posts: 2

Well I am here Wink

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brokenarrow · Joined: 21 May 2013 Posts: 15

I think the same about woman.... !! Wink

Crazy23 · Joined: 21 Oct 2014 Posts: 12

The same question could be asked abt women.....

but in all honesty people are people, and they tend to cum with alot of baggage the've carried 4rm past relationships. U'd learn dat normaly guys start out alryt( honest, gullible an in-love) bt the lessons dat dey learn 4rm being valnrable(whch u hav 2 be at 1 stage or another in a relationship), is NOT TO DO IT.

anyway, all im sayn is dat there are honest gud guys out-there u just have to be patient and peel back the layers.

Leomatters · Joined: 03 Feb 2015 Posts: 35

LMC · Joined: 21 Mar 2015 Posts: 1

Well to tell you the truth there are plenty of us guys out there.....the problem is actually the woman, they would rather look at the guys with looks, how well he's build and how thick the wallet is. As a matter of fact the guys that are romantic, respects a woman and would treat her like she's a queen....the guys that are actually the gentleman, we are the ones that are called the nerds and to soft and gentle to be a man. So when you actually are looking for the right guy.....think what it is exactly what you want....is it the looks and the thick wallet that blinds you with riches or is it the riches of the guy with the golden heart you want.

T 0839429424 · Joined: 23 Mar 2015 Posts: 1

Good day to everyone.
Yea I dont think you look hard enough though, you will meet the more decent people in churches etc. Ask the guy where he was raised up eg Karoo. Looking at the right place is the key to success. If a guy starting to talk sex from day one, his not the right one. Believe in your values and stick to it. Kind regards Tiaan

brokenarrow · Joined: 21 May 2013 Posts: 15

for every action is a reaction, at the end of the day, mostly how much money do u have, & when you go out who pays ? why must a man pay , just to take a woman out.

Only to meet her, and she has the choice.. !
of either liking someone or not !!!

Leomatters · Joined: 03 Feb 2015 Posts: 35

eskarina · Joined: 04 Nov 2014 Posts: 20

Sex becoming more freely available really complicates dating. With unwanted pregnancies out of the way and very few caring much about having multiple partners people kind of expect any relationship to include sex sooner rather than later. I personally think we put to much emphasis on the sex part of the relationship. It is as if people think if there is not an overwhelming want to have sex with someone when you meet him/her there is no reason to waste time on each other.

Leomatters · Joined: 03 Feb 2015 Posts: 35

eskarina · Joined: 04 Nov 2014 Posts: 20

Seems like it is all to do with money. If you don't pay up you better pay with your body. When did men become such cheap skates that they are not even willing to pay for the coffee or light meal when you meet the first time? It is not as if you must take out a second mortgage on your house to pay for a meal. [/quote]