The Dating Forum

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

I read all these post and the guys and ladies that sounds real and serious about finding someone?
I have not seen 99% of their profiles?

I must be doing something wrong here or maybe its a sign that I should just stop with the online dating Sad

nontuthuko · Joined: 14 Apr 2016 Posts: 7

Think our nature will always cry out for affection and intimacy. We were created from such after all through Adam. God the Father, the Son and the Holly Spirit were in intimate agreement when creating a human. To a point were God would come down daily for visitations with Adam. Your longingness for intimacy and affection is quite natural and normal. Maybe the question should be: Are we on a right place as we're searching for our mates?

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

Hi.
Thanks for your response. Due to personal circumstances, I am 1000's of km away from my friends and family. Don't have a social life at all. That just sounds sad and desperate. But, it is what it is. I am not on this site to get a man per se, chat buddies, friends etc. Would just like a evening out with my peers. Adult conversation. Have a bit of fun. (Not sex, before I get crucified here. Lol)

I haven't received any responses via my profile, but I'm enjoying this forum. Very interesting indeed.

Hope I succed at some time.

You have yourself a good evening.

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

Guys.

I'm lost again. L.......O.......V.......L.......!!!!!!!!!

I don't know who is replying to who. Who is replying to my post.
Just realised that when I looked at the dates.
Now I just seem sad, desperate and very DOF.

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

About the desperate part, I was actually kidding : ' )

eskarina · Joined: 04 Nov 2014 Posts: 20

Spiritualmale....people make the mistake to start relationhips for the wrong reasons and then they wonder why it doesn't last. They have this long list of requirements or naively believe an overwhelming feeling of lust...I mean love is all that is needed. Compatibility rather than chemistry is what is needed to make a rekationship work imo

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

I beg to differ.. And with all due respet. If love was all we needed, we wouldn't have this high divorce rate in our country. For that matter, in the world. Compatibilty is an important factor, but I wouldn't like to marry a clone of myself. Our differences........Well, that's what makes us different.....Hahahahaha. Sorry guys. Couldn't resist that one. Differnce is good, refreshing. Makes life interesting. If you go into a relationship or marraige you already know the differences between the two of you. If you know you will not be able to live with it, run. He or she will not change unless they want to. (If and when they're ready) Do not expect your partner to change for you. You are who you are. Now comes in, compromise. If you love someone you compromise if its gonna make your partner happy. But not to the point where you become mini me's or losing yourself ("YOU"!!!!) Your personality....Your character. Who did your partner then fall inlove with in the first place place? What in the beginning can be "the cutest mannerisms" can become the thing that irritates you to the point you can " SCREAM! Difference? Compatiility? You decide how much you can or want to give and how much you prepared to take in your stride because of love. We must learn to choose our battles in order to win the war. Not putting the lid down/long hair in the bath/shower/how long she takes to get ready........ That is not even battles. That's day to day life.There is more where this comes from, but we'll leave them for the (my) Novel. Lol

Now. Let's get to the nitty gritty.......... Sad

to say this, but "HELL TO THE NO" Chemistry is an integral (don't now go put words in my mouth and I did not say its the most important) part of a relationship. I don't know how much I can or should say. It is after all a public site. Im gonna think long and hard about this. Decide whether I should continue?

Jennahart · Joined: 11 Apr 2016 Posts: 23

Sorry for the typos.

Regarding the Chemistry(its capped because its soooo....... important Smile

) I would like to discuss. Nothing untoward, vulgar, embarrassing.......Really. So please, I would like your opinion on this. What say you? Yae or Nae?