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Making the site more secure for you
March 20, 2017

Dear members,

Starting today, you'll notice that there's a padlock next to the domain name in the address bar. This is because we've just implemented secure browsing.

This means that everything you now do on this site is protected and secure.

If you notice anything unusual following the change please email...more

Make the date or wait?
June 21, 2016

For some time now it has always been the men's job to make the date. They are the ones to make the first approach in a bar, or to ask for a lady's number, but surely this is a relic of the past?

Research has shown that on average, men don't...more

Happy new year
January 20, 2014
Congrats all, you've safely made it into 2014! I love starting a new year. For some reason, it really feels like you can turn your mind off to all the undesirables in the previous year, and start afresh with everything good!

I've done the same with this website....

Farewell Madiba
December 12, 2013
We all knew this day would come, Madiba lived a great life which should be celebrated. Personally I was surprised by the amount of emotion in the South Africans, myself included. I can just offer my thanks for having been alive and living in South Africa to share in part...more

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How to Date Safely

While we've managed to get rid of scammers from beyond our borders, there has been an increase in scammers from South Africa. These are a lot harder to spot as they appear to be genuine users. They do have one trait in common though, after some period of time they will ask you for money.

There was a story on Carte Blanche very recently which would make good reading. The link is here: http://beta.mnet.co.za/carteblanche/Article.aspx?Id=4504&ShowId=1

To sum up, you should always be suspicious when someone requests money. Especially if you've never met the person. If one of the members does request money from you, please inform us on [email protected]. We will be able to check on their previous activity, and provide you with a good estimate as to whether their behaviour seems suspicious.

There are thousands of decent members on this site so don't be discouraged by the few bad elements.

At LetsMeet, user safety is a priority. We understand that meeting someone for the first time whether online, through an acquaintance or on an outing is intriguing and exciting. However, your safety is very important and because you are in control of your LetsMeet experience, there are certain safety steps that you should follow while dating both online and offline.

We ask you to read the tips and information below, and strongly urge you to follow these guidelines in the interest of your personal safety and well-being. However, you are always the best judge of your own safety, and these guidelines are not intended to be a substitute for your own judgment.

Online Behavior

  • Finance: Protect Your Finances & Never Send Money or Financial Information

    Never respond to any request to send money, especially overseas or by wire transfer, and report it to us immediately even if the person claims to be in an emergency. Wiring money is like sending cash: the sender has no protections against loss and it's nearly impossible to reverse the transaction or trace the money. For more information, click on the video below to the U.S. Federal Trade Commission's advice to avoid online romance scams, also available here: https://www.consumer.ftc.gov/articles/0004-online-dating-scams.