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Making the site more secure for you
March 20, 2017
Dear members,
Starting today, you'll notice that there's a padlock next to the domain name in the address bar. This is because we've just implemented secure browsing.
This means that everything you now do on this site is protected and secure.
If you notice anything unusual following the change please email...
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Make the date or wait?
June 21, 2016
For some time now it has always been the men's job to make the date. They are the ones to make the first approach in a bar, or to ask for a lady's number, but surely this is a relic of the past?
Research has shown that on average, men don't...
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Happy new year
January 20, 2014
Congrats all, you've safely made it into 2014! I love starting a new year. For some reason, it really feels like you can turn your mind off to all the undesirables in the previous year, and start afresh with everything good!
I've done the same with this website....
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Farewell Madiba
December 12, 2013
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Computer addiction
"I have a problem with my boyfriend. He's obsessed with computers. He spends whole days just setting up and testing his car. All the conversations come down to topics about new technologies, what he read in a computer magazine, how he could find money for a new, more powerful computer. He can't calmly do other things if he doesn't look through the price lists of computer companies for an hour, read articles, or spend an hour on the Internet downloading material from computers.
He's aware of it himself, but he can't help himself. Because of this "hobby&"he doesn't have time to study, he has debts at the university. As a result, I have problems with my parents due to my studies, and I don't have much time for our meetings. But that's not the most important thing. The main thing is that, realizing that he doesn't have time for anything because of sitting at the computer, either in school or anywhere else, he often feels terrible dissatisfaction with himself, disappointment.
You see, it's not just a hobby anymore. It's some kind of addiction. He keeps asking me to wean him off it, make him study, etc. But how can I do it. Even if I take his computer away from him, he'll find something else to do on the same topic."
If you really want to wean your boyfriend off computer addiction, then first of all you should try to change his lifestyle a little. As long as he spends a lot of time at home, he will continue to be drawn to the computer. Obviously, he needs to expand his range of interests somehow. But it's best to start expanding this circle not with intellectual things, but with sports or entertainment, where the head can relax and unwind. And it is desirable that conversations about computers are not provoked there.
First, try to invite him to go to the pool with you in the evening, go roller skating, or just walk down the street. In fact, it doesn't really matter what you do, but the most important thing is that it's an active action, and even up to good physical fatigue. And if, after your walks or other entertainment, your boyfriend falls off his feet and immediately falls into bed, then this will be the best result and a guarantee that he will not sit down at the computer at night.
But remember that an alternative interest in other joys in life must be supported, i.e., it cannot be some kind of one-time action. Then the positive result will gain a foothold, and you will get a wonderful guy who knows how to enjoy life to the fullest. Daily Lotto results history
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